Alain
64, St Nizier Du Moucherotte, France

** March 16th - Требования: женщина 45-60 лет, свободно владеющая английским, немецким или французским языком (уровень >=B1); грудастая и чувственная; Высшее образование; атеист или агностик; вежливый, добрый и терпеливый (1-2 года на то, чтобы познакомиться, встретиться, оформить документы на брак); продемократия (без силовиков/кремлевских фанатов); ни содержанки, ни домохозяйки; можно поговорить через WhatsApp или Viber **

ME : elegant, energetic, polymath, sensual man from France, an original mix of traditional, modern and international lifestyle (*), whose heart is in Isere, French Alps, his native Upper Alsace (Haut Rhin) and elsewhere (USA; DACH; PL, RU, UA, E).

(*) I lived 5y in the USA in the late 80s, inc. 4y in New York (Wall Street).

I live ''above'' Grenoble, and alone with my 2 cats, at the entrance of the Vercors natural park (2-3 months of light snow), in a beautiful, large and romantic house and location. House which i manage myself (yes i clean, cook, iron, sew, etc. !) .

Location: i am not far from Paris, Lyon and Geneva, CH (3h TGV from Paris, and 2h by car for the 2 latter cities).

I look rather young (main picture from April 2023), have a slim figure (no beer, no spirits, no smoking, sorry if this sound boring :)-), and a normal to high libido. But i occasionally enjoy wine or Crémant d'Alsace (180 bottles fridge) and shand. And of course i suffer from emotional and sensual loneliness... but i handle it :)- alone!

I work from home (in a Cybersecurity software sales leadership position) and travel rarely... to Paris or Western Europe. And I work in English, German and French (70 - 20 - 10%)

I am looking for a true Life Partner, because, after 2 failures, i still believe in Love and believe that finding a Lady for whom i have a strong physical, sensual, cerebral attraction and alignment, will be a source of happiness and pleasure., and long life.

I have stopped to look at many websites, except this one, mostly because French or EU ladies are looking for a Man +/- 5 years of their age, because many have never lived abroad and have zero international experience, and because i am attracted by the EM beauties  !
 
Just to be clear: i am not looking for a trophee, a cleaning lady or xxx, but a true lifelong Partner - who wants to learn French language and culture at the UGA or Université Grenoble Alpes (courses paid by me, a 4-8 Ke investment depending on how fast you learn and adapt), and integrate into France, a secular Republic.

I will of course help you find a financially and or intellectually rewarding position (help with CV, job hunting, LinkedIn, funding of above or other courses, etc).

Practicalities: since i raised my twin boys in shared custody for 7 years, i am very independent (food shopping  + cooking of healthy meals + house and property, incl. cleaning and maintenance). And I hire sometimes  a gardener / home improvement specialist, will install soon my first vacuum cleaner / robot... and much more.

I have a thirst for Love, Tenderness and Sensuality, and am eagier to find You !

YOU : an intelligent, honest, healthy, good, communicative, warm and curious Lady, age 45-60, curvy and feminine, with a healthy sexual appetite and curiosity.

A lady who knows to give, receive and share, who enjoys the pleasures of the brain, the body and life, with curiosity and passion, without excess.

A lady who may, thanks to her open mind, also enjoy Naturist holidays with me in southern France  (Mont Ventoux, in the romantic Vaucluse), or Classical holidays in a swimsuit (eg. Greece or the timeshare my parents own in Mallorca, Spain).  

A lady who knows how to work hard to achieve her goals, and can balance Professional, Family and Personal interests (not an egotistic princess or child, who thinks Me, Me and Me, and not a bounty / wealth hunter either) !

A lady mature enough to understand and handle her partner / husband and her own professional and family priorities. And also his role as an engaged citizen (eg. president of a high-school parents association, for the Isere krai ; support to French chapters of free Russian and Ukrainian groups, member of a local /business club).  And also as an engaged father (adviser and funder of his 19 yo twin boys' university studies and early career moves).

A lady who wants to create a long-term and fulfilling Love story (in my family, men live a healthy life close to 100 !; my father is 88 and travels 6x a year).

THE TWO OF US : a life for us and a bit for our respective families/children, a life made of ups (many) and as few downs as possible (let's be realistic), where hard work, love, tenderness, listening skills, tolerance, open mindness... and success have a key role.

For ordinary moments (many) and extra-ordinary (will share once relation is building up). And for a relationship which values quality and communication.

FYI, I will have more time once i retire mid of 2026 or 2028 (once i have finished to pay my twin boys University).

Thus, I have started to make plans for a World Tour (1-2 months each year, over 6 years) : Transsiberian + Kamchatka ...if peace is back, Japan + S Korea ; Latin and Central America ; USA and Canada (have friends in MI and CA ),  Africa (esp. the Great migration in the Serengeti....2 mio animals; pyramids of Meroe, in Sudan/Nubia), and EU-UK.  

My heart, house and my two cats are waiting for you !

Requirements (требования)
1  Age: only interested by mature ladies ( approx. age 45-60 ).

2 Values : you are NOT a vatnik, not a Putin fan or from a siloviki family. I support and help Russian and Ukrainian refugees and freedom fighters, with my time and money (eg. Novaia Gazeta and xxx that i cannot list here).

3 Marriage :  in principle, I do not plan to remarry  – mariage is too rigid and divorce too lenghty and costly.  And my lawyer confirms ! But i have to be realistic :  if you are not from the EU,  i will need to marry you...as this is the ony way for you to be able to stay and work here (UA ladies are authorized to work because of the EU laws, response to the Russian invasion). Thus a must will be a prenuptial agreement (a wedding contract), to separate our estates.

4 Driver license and Snow: i live on the country side even if only 15mn from the Grenoble metropolis (500 000 folks), thus driving a car is a must. Re: snow, with the global warning, we have less and less of it, and you will learn with me to drive on snow or put chains (10 days a year) !

5 Common language : English or German or French. Sorry I only speak 50 words of Polish or 20 words of Russian. Da ! Tak ! Jawohl !

PS: sorry if the above is very very long and mostly Un-Romantic (very down to earth), but this way you can see that i am very Serious, Motivated and Experienced.  FYI, i met my previous wife on THIS site, and LIKE a lot Elenas Models ! :)  Paka, paka !