Valary
45, Kazan, Russia

Hey. My name is Valeriya. I live in Russia. I dream to meet my soul mate and true love. I appreciate family, honesty and respect for each other. I love to grow and live for today. I want to share happiness, joy and all the colors of life with my loved one. I hope to meet this on this site.
A letter from the father of a little daughter about her future husband
Psychologist Kelly Flanagan writes letters to his daughter about everything in the world - something like messages in a bottle with wise advice for the future. Psychologies has published one of the most popular letters, attracting thousands of readers on his blog.

"Baby

My mom and I recently searched for something on Google. In response, the search engine accidentally issued a list of the most popular queries in the world. At the top of the list was the question: "How to keep a man."

This request discouraged me. I skimmed through several of the endless articles on how to always be sexy, when is the best time to bring him a beer, and when - a sandwich and how to make your man smarter and cooler.

And I got angry.

Baby, this is not true - you have never had, never will and will not have such a task - to “keep a man”.

Baby, your only task is to remember that you are worthy of the love of a good person. Keep this confidence deep in the soul, where it cannot be destroyed by the failures, losses and selfishness that we all encounter on the path of life. (If you remember that not only you, but any person is worthy of respect and love, the battle of your life can be considered won. But this is a topic for another letter).

If you believe that it is valuable in itself, then you will attract a boy who will be able to appreciate you and who wants to spend his only life falling more and more in love with you.

Baby, I want to tell you about a boy who does not need to be kept, because he himself wants to be near you.

I do not care if he holds his elbows at the table correctly - the main thing is that he does not take his eyes off your nose when you ridiculously wrinkle him, bursting into laughter.

I don’t care if he knows how to play golf at least a little - the main thing is that he will be able to play with the children that you give him and notice, with enthusiasm, then with irritation, how they look like you.

I do not care how courageous he is - the main thing is that he has enough strength to give you the strength of your heart.

What interests me least is who he votes in the elections - if he will honor you in your house and deeply respect you in your heart.

I do not care about the color of his skin - if he covers the canvas of your life together with the colors of patience, and the ability to sacrifice for each other, and vulnerability, and tenderness.

I don’t care what religion they raised him in, or maybe he will grow up in a non-religious family - the main thing is for him to learn that there are holy things in life, and to know that every minute of life in general and every minute of life is deeply sacred with you.

And finally, baby: if you meet such a man on your way and he will have nothing in common with me, we will still have the most important common value in the world: YOU.

Because in the end, the only thing you should do to “hold it” is to be you.

Forever loving you man

Dad".

“I wrote this letter to my daughter, but I want to dedicate it to every adult woman I met on my way,” Kelly Flanagan addresses the readers of her blog. “A woman who never heard such words from her father.” I also wrote it for a generation of present boys - future men who need to hear about really important things. Whether my little girl will meet a loving companion for life depends on whether at least one of you can not forget about these important things. I'm praying for you".