Matthew
54, Redditch, United Kingdom

Have you ever felt like you must be invisible? That's how I often feel. I have been looking for a wife for more than twenty years now but have still not found the mother of our children. I'm not looking for anyone extraordinary, just someone that is faithful, loyal, honest, trustworthy and committed to "us", our future and the family we will build together. Some may say I'm looking for someone with "Old School" values. To put it simply, I am looking for a woman with good morals and standards.

I'm a sapiophile that enjoys spending time with like-minded people, especially if there is music and dance involved. All my friends, family and associates tell me what a great guy I am and don't understand why I'm still single. I am the man that many of my friends turn to when they need help, advice or simply someone to talk to about many things. Many of my friends children turn to me like a father figure. I like to think I am honest and trustworthy and, if you asked them, I'm sure that is what my friends would say about me. Now some of those same friends are having Grandchildren and I've still not found the woman of my dreams.

As I have already said, I'm looking for someone with traditional morals and standards. I can provide a house but I am looking for a woman to turn that house into a home that we and our children can grow in. I am looking for a woman that wants to be at home, to care for our home, care for our family and be a loving and attentive mother to our children and wife to her husband. I am NOT looking for some sort of slave. I am looking for a co-pilot for our journey of life.

What am I willing to give my wife? What would I NOT give to the woman of my dreams? Like it says in the marriage vows in the UK, I will give my wife all that I am (my mind), all of me (my body) and all that I have. Most importantly I will give my wife all my time, all my atention, all my support and all my love. If I ever fail to be all she expects me to be I also give her permission to give me a kick!

I have worked hard to achieve a good education. I then worked long and hard to gain the skills and experience I needed to be successful in my chosen career. But, despite al of my success, I have one goal I have still to achieve; a family. As a child I dreamed of having a wife and children that would wave me off as I left the house and greet me as I returned home from a long day at work. I would take my children to the park to play and would applaud at their games. And, of course, I would spend hours with my wife in my arms enjoying being together as our family grew. Now I am almost half way down my road and still have not found a wife or had any children.

To put it simply, I am a family man without a family of my own. Would you like to be my wife and build a family with me?