Justin
48, Albuquerque, United States

FYI - I DID NOT VOTE FOR TRUMP!
My ideal relationship?  Well, I'd want an intelligent woman who wants a career and seeks knowledge.  I'd want someone I could spend time with - whether it be going to a nice restaurant, traveling somewhere, or just taking a nice walk and talking.
I'd only be interested in women with whom I make a real connection, since that would lead to a real relationship.
If you've gotten this far, I'll give you some details about me.  I make a respectable income in my profession (engineer), I have a very nice house, and I'm independent.  I've never drank, nor smoked, and I don't intend to.  I don't mind if you drink, provided you do not get drunk or are an alcoholic.  Smoking is a deal breaker.  (Yuck!)
Now for a few realities:
1. Right now this country is in a dangerous time. We have an authoritarian "president" whose goal is to take complete control of our country and rule it with an iron fist. Backing him up, we have an extremist hate group whose only dedication is to their Party (think Nazis - we call them Republicans), and they will not back down regardless of the freedoms that they destroy to achieve their goal of Supremacy. Be warned that their current hatred is focused on immigrants and those that support them.
2. This site is not free - it is very expensive.
3. There is a huge cost of flying halfway across the world to meet someone under the possiblity - not guaranteed - of finding love.
4. Every site has a number of scammers.
5. There is a serious risk of meeting the 'love' of your life; only to have that woman dump you once she gets into the country. (I'm not saying you, but this is an unfortunate reality.)
This might sound negative, but i'm just being honest with you. You've probably thought of these anyway, and I understand the risks you have to accept also (potenially violent men, scammers, criminals, liars, etc.). So bear in mind that we both have risks.